I love first dates, that might be why I've been on so many of them, there is nothing like hanging out with someone you barely know and having every act judged. When I meet new girls I purposely don't ask a bunch of questions about them until we go on that first date. I'm a face to face kinda guy, I can't stand sitting on the phone for hours at a time. I'd much rather just go out somewhere and hang. It's a better way to get to know someone. I have a policy about first dates, I want to be some place where we have to interact. This will help me see if she is a jumpoff, friend or girlfriend. You need to get that out the way early so you know how to treat them from that point on. So when going on first dates I NEVER go to the movies. Why? because you paying for the girl to keep quiet for 2 hours. That's a waste of time and money, you need to see if there is any chemistry between the two of you and that doesn't happen in a movie theater. Unless it's a $1.50 movie from back in the day, you know the ones where nobody went for the movie and everyone went to have semi-privacy in the darkness... nevermind.
So where should you go? glad you asked. A good place is out to eat but that doesn't make for a long date and staring at each other across a table can become a problem if you don't have anything to talk about. The best places are places where there are plenty of people and lots to do. Dave and Busters, bowling, museums you know places like that. You can see how the girl is in public (important because some people you just can't take anywhere) and you still have interaction with her. On a side note if the date doesn't work out at least you can laugh at other people and have a good time. Plus it's come my attention that the whole art of dating has almost died. Dudes don't even make the effort anymore, They meet girls and do everything they can to have sex with them without actually taking them out. I have no idea how we got here, what happened to dating? now it's "I'm talking to them" what the fukk does that mean? is dating not allowed anymore? is it wrong to be dating multiple people? I thought that's what being single was, you date until you find a girlfriend/boyfriend then you only date them until you get married. Call me old school but I don't see the problem with dating. And don't get me started on this whole "we going dutch" shyt. That's cute when you have been seeing someone for a while but how you going to ask a girl out and expect her to pay? I was always told "if you want a second date you'll pay for the first" again I might be old school. So if you want to get on a girls good side take her on a real date. Hold the door open, smile be nice you know do all the stuff you see in the movies, it really works. I might cost you a lil money but I promise you'll get cool points with her. What's money when it comes to possible love right? RIGHT!!
Anyway I have a date tonight with a new girl, we are going to shoot some pool and who knows what else. It should be fun, Have a nice weekend everyone.
PS. I proof read this and I really think dudes need to raise they kids better because men should have learned from thier father how to treat a woman and women should have learned from they father how a man should treat them. I went out with this girl who told me to not hold the door open for her because I was being "too nice" and she didn't like that.... that's that bullshit I be talking about. Our generation was raised all wrong lol