So while I think I'm a great person I know I'm a bad boyfriend. You wanna know why?
Because I'm lazy
I like things that are easy, I want everything to fall into place. Relationships rarely work like that You have to work at them, listen and care about the other persons concerns and communicate. BLAH!!! I'm great at listening but it's the caring part that I suck at. You see I have this theory that nobody really cares. You don't REALLY care if I can't pay my power bill. You might feel bad, show some concern but at the end of the day if it don't effect you, you don't care. Maybe I should narrow that down, nobody besides your momma and loved ones care. Even your loved ones is a stretch. Most your friends or co-workers will be like "Aww that's too bad" And go back to they life. I know that's how I am.
So this attitude effects my relationships. Women talk and expect me to console and say "Aww baby it will be ok" and I'm just not wired like that. I offer ways to fix whatever the problem is or just dismiss it as you being silly. BTW dismissing a womans feelings is never a good idea, yet I do it all the time.
The other problem I have is expressing feelings. See besides laughter I don't express much. If I'm mad I usually just do busy work to get my mind off it. I'm not going to be in a shouting match with you, I'd much rather walk away and clear my head. I'm not the kinda guy who pours out his heart and starts talking about how much I miss you or how your the best girl I've ever met. Usually it's because I don't miss you and your NOT the best girl I've ever met. Hell even getting a sincere compliment outta me is amazing. I know women like that stuff, it just feels stupid coming out of my mouth. Like I'm reading a script from TV. It never feels genuine so I never say it. I was always told not to say stuff you don't really mean.
Ahhh, i always have some part of my personality to work on.