09 July 2010

All In... pt 2

My day at court didn't go as I expected, I didn't lose but I didn't win either. At best it could be described as delayed. Long day and story short the judge didn't have time to hear the whole case and was more interested in starting his vacation than deciding custody. A case that was scheduled for 3 hours was given 1.5 hours. He stopped the hearing short and decided to continue it in September...

Thanks to everyone for your well wishes, while I'm sad as I type this I'm not discouraged. All good things come in time, I've been waiting a a year And as usual "nobody said it would be easy, only that it would be worth it"

Anyway its going to be a LONG 3 months...

11 comments:

K. Rock said...

Awww man. Like you said, it's just a delay. You are not out. Just hang in there. It ain't over yet.

The Jaded NYer said...

Wow. well, come September it will be good news. You still get to see your baby, right?

GorgeousPuddin said...

Delayed but not denied. Hang in there!!!!! Mad at that judge though!

Jazzy said...

I'm just seeing this and I have to say I'm relieved. When i didn't hear anything I just automatically thought the worse.

this judge should be ashamed of himself though. if i ever have to go to court for anything, i know to push for any day but Friday!

Hugs Davie!

BorednTalkative said...

That judge is something else. Hang in there Dave.

Ieisha said...

As a soon-to-be member of the judicial community (6 months and counting down, lol), I am completely FLOORED by this judge. WTF?! Vacation? So what. The livelihood & well-being of a child is at stake here. Ugh. I don't know if I'm more mad that the judge adjourned till September or happy that the judge recognized his/her lack of focus and decided to adjourn until after the vacation. No wonder the wheels of justice are barely turning. I'm still rooting for you! Keep ya head up!

12kyle said...

hang in there,fam

Anonymous said...

You know what, this is good news. I am almost positive that Sept will be in your favor. Hang in there man...we are all saying prayers and sending positive thoughts your way. Like someone said delayed but not denied.

buttahflychronicles said...

Love the makeover. Bout time.

Maybe something important and necessary is supposed to happen in those 3 months.

For example, you know BD1 tried to take Ishmael from me. It didn't happen. The judge and mediator didn't even feel right making such a decision bc Ish is thriving. Well, at 13 yo, you can decide which parent you want to live with. Ish will be 13 in September. Right now, there's not talk of what he wants to do. At the time of the last court hearing he didn't really care that much anymore. But if the does want to go with his dad, I think I might be ready. I think. I'm not sure yet cause he's with his dad this summer and I really miss him. And, last time I saw him, he seemed like a slightly better man. :)

Maybe I just needed that extra time. If you are asking people to pray for you, God will answer justly. You don't get to use Him like a geenie.

Point is, you just may be getting LMS. But in order for the rest of your lives to go more smoothly, BM may just need some extra time which she's being granted right now. We'll see.

Angel said...

I like the optimism of buttafly...

I wouldn't have thought of it like that, but she could very well be right. Keep your head up!

Redbonegirl97 said...

Well I'll be praying for you continuously through this ordeal.

Peace, Love and Chocolate
Tiffany